A few weeks ago at Ecclesia, we watched a short video called "This was Grace" about a family in which a son was born blind with a cleft palette. He also has autism and growth hormone deficiency. The wife/mother was diagnosed has stage 4 breast cancer.
And yet, they are praising and trusting in God in the midst of it. I suggest watching the
video yourself, but here is a shocking quote from the husband/dad:
"I have a little boy who is blind, has autism and growth hormone deficiency. He doesn't eat well. He doesn't
sleep well. My wife lives with stage 4 cancer in her body. And I have a Hope and I have a future. And I have
a Rock. And I cling to my Jesus."
To apply the Scripture we looked at this past Sunday (Phil. 2:12-18), THAT is what it looks like to "do all things without grumbling" and to "shine as lights in the world." Here is a man who has every reason to complain (according to the way most of us think) and question God; instead, he's trusting, hoping and clinging. The look on his face is one of joy.
That man's name is John Knight. I didn't know this when we watched the video, but he is the senior director of development at Desiring God (John Piper's ministry). You can read some occasional blogs of his here.
He also writes for a web site that is the volunteer disability ministry blog for Bethlehem Baptist Church. I highly recommend checking it out: http://theworksofgod.com/
All of this got me to thinking about people with disabilities and how we sometimes look on them as tragic figures. It's the idea of "This is not the norm, not the way it's suppose to be." "They'll never experience....(fill in the blank)." "Oh, their poor families! How do they take care of them?"
And while certainly life with a disability is difficult -- for all those involved -- most families I
know who've had such a child or sibling would not go back and change a thing. Some of
our friends recently adopted a little girl with Down syndrome from Russia. Here is her
perspective, as seen from a recent Facebook post:
I'm a little confused. Down syndrome is supposed to occur in 1 out of 740 births. But I hardly EVER
see kids with DS anymore. At Disneyland this morning we saw thousands of kids and only one
other child with DS. It's very sad. The world needs more of these beautiful people.
The world does indeed more of these beautiful people. Her post also highlights a real tragedy -- that is, the misuse and misapplication of prenatal testing by many to abort children diagnosed with Down syndrome in the womb. (I'm not against prenatal testing, by the way; I am opposed to its misuse, leading to abortion, however).
God doesn't make mistakes, even in the creation of people with disabilities. He is
sovereign, involved and good:
"For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am
fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works..." - Ps. 139:13-14
People with Down syndrome, just like those without, were made in the image of God for
His glory. It actually seems people with Down syndrome might be doing a better job of that
(glorifying God with their lives) than most. Here is another quote from the video:
"This was how God gripped us. This is how God was merciful to us. He has given us something very, very
precious, through our son... Our son is a gift. It was because He gave us this little boy... that He has done a
work in my heart... and so many other people's hearts and I want to tell that story. This was grace."
We have to remind ourselves of these things often in the midst of a fallen, difficult world. But Christianity is about life. The gospel is about hope and forgiveness in spite of pain and sin. God has been gracious to us and we exercise faith in His sovereign goodness in the midst of trials. This is either true or it is not. We as the body of believers at Ecclesia are staking our lives on it being true. Praise be to the God from Whom all blessings -- such as people with disabilities -- flow!